I'm just trying to say I'm not moralizing from on high, but saying from experience that it really doesn't help. And as a former soldier, I am speaking to the experience of soldiers and emergency personnel too - I've had missions that gave me tortured nightmares. For months afterward, and sometimes still... I watched people kill themselves and their families in empty comforts because they "deserved it" after a hard day. We deserve better than the illusion, and given the chance to provide for another, I would give them the best I could.
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Date: 2005-10-03 12:00 am (UTC)